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Tuesday, 10 March 2009

  • 又一年了。。

    I actually got lots of things wanted to be kept in my memory.. but when I start writing now.. I dont know what can I talk about. 3months.. changes a lot.

    It's almost 2am now and the results will be released at 9am. think back what Pete Odell said.. "always ask yourself.. what are you here for? to simply get around your days and get a OKAY degree, get a job and work for 40 years? Is that what you are looking for? these few years in university would be the best days in your life. DONT WASTE IT."  what he said is so true.. I've been spending time.. not studying.. but working, massoc-ing, dancing, drama-ing, msn-ing, facebook-ing, travelling, eating... I know I should work harder than what I am doing now, but sometimes it's out of expectation..

    OPPORTUNITY COST would always be the best word... movie or study? eat or sleep? social or hybernate in own room? everything has its cost.. how to balance it? It all depends on oneself..

    hopefully when I finish this blog.. I will know how to have self-control..

Monday, 22 December 2008

  • 满20岁

    终于都 2 字头了。想想这二十年来自己所做过的事。 有些连自己都无法原谅自己的错,有些却怎样也无法去原谅一个人。。原来原谅需要很大的勇气。

    今年的生日。。

    08-18号 hmm.. 生了场大病。要不是有smin, shujun, wengtze, malcolm, eewan.. 早就崩溃了。。:) 尤其是在赶EU assignment 的时候。。my god.. 几乎真的想死。。hmm

    19号 上课完了就和Smin 去了Meadowhall. 好像抛开全世界,只有我们两个。。 哈哈~~ 买了件衣服。original price is 70pounds. but 20% discount so 56pounds. when i paid.. it's ONLY 35 POUNDS!! wakaka~~~ hehehe... so happy!! n then we ate McD.. 肥死。。刚痊愈又这样'折磨'自己。。昨天才吃KFC吧了。tsk tsk tsk.. hehe.. (本来很期待跟 Bobby 的晚餐,但他失约了。。。  )
    收到yao寄来的card 了。呵呵,口硬心软的家伙~~ =P

    20号 Chris 送了我Fred Perry 的scarf..不用说都知道一定很贵。晚上就和 Chris, Brian, Seken, Elsa 在wongting 吃晚餐。 then 去做工了。Union Cloakroom Staff.. 幸好今晚有kaikiat 和steven 在。不然就闷死了。 而且最重要的是>>> 他们送了我一直梦寐以求的礼物。。。IPOD!!!!! 真的感激不尽!  ^.^ thank you guys so much!!! (to KK, Allen, Steven, William, Sun & Sin.. hehe)

    21号 送Chris搭cab. 看着「当狗爱上猫」突然间感性了起来。lolz.. daddy mummy 打来。问我同样的问题,哈哈,也不知该如何回答。过后,跟大伙儿一起吃点心 ^.^ longing for it for quite some time.. the last time was 22 nov when we were preparing for World Food Evening. hehe..  大伙儿有 Smin, Gan, Haowei, Shingwei, CJ, Vincent, Malcolm Chiu, Eugene, Malcolm Greig, Nic, qian yih..  lolz.. 本来不打算有什么特别庆祝,但smin 帮我提出了去karaoke.. hehe.. 真的很高心!! 整晚都拿着mike ^.^ 很尽情地唱!!! 陪我的 有SMIN 啦当然!! fng, gan, haowei, choo, malcolm, CJ, shingwei. :) 虽然只小小的cupcake, 但心意十足!!!  十二点。。。许愿了。。。 ^.^  谢谢你们!! 噢对了!今天是过冬,所以也煲了汤圆一起吃!! 团圆是最重要的!! ^.^

    22号 睡到1pm. henry & cherry 十点多打来,说我睡到这么迟,我'dat'回她 不知谁平时睡到1pm的leh.. hahaha... then cheechiew & sally 打来。也谈了15mins.  gohgoh n yongyong 没有wish 我。。臭屁蛋他们啊!!!  replied 了 friendster & facebook 的 msg.. weeyi, weichi, bonbon, weiyang, tracey, AH G, qwer qwin, houhou, 'bong ju', bobby.. msn wish from ryan, nicole, samantha, tony, darren, wanlin, h'ng yin mun, tian li 
    msg wish from raj, vincent, laiyee, chunkit, tim, amy, wengtze
    今晚是Union Staff Xmas Party.. 打扮得漂漂亮亮的。。^.^ 生日嘛,终要注重一下自己。.而且还穿了Smin送我的短裙。hehe. Ann, Richard, Kaikiat, Steven 都一起。kns.. 喝了一杯Vodka+Pineapple 和 one shot of Sambuca... 就倒了。。易醉的家伙!!! @.@
    then weiwei, eewan 打来..都关心我。。。 ^.^ 跟yao诉苦了一下。。:P

    虽然不算怎样充实,但已经很满足了!! ^.^  谢谢所有的祝福~ ^.^

Tuesday, 11 November 2008

  • new life 全新的生活

    hmm. 3.30pm 11/11/2008
    back to sheffield for more than a month. most of the things are out of expectation..

    1st>> I'm the new Publicity Officer for Massoc (Malaysian & Singaporean Society). lots of people think that I must be very happy to get that post without going through husting.. but actually.. it's kind of big responsibility. coz this time round, it's not until the next november.. is until easter of 2010.. (means half of my 3rd year) which....... fills up more than half of my uni life..
    but anyway, after few gathering with the new committee(which all of them are freshers except the President) I am quite comfortable to work with them.. especially the jokes made by Aaron>> our event officer.. haha...n closest friend in committee would be welfare officer Stephanie & her bf EngJoe, the VP. (maybe because they talked to me in mandrin so i feel more "亲切" ^.^ )

    ~New Committee List~
    President > Robyn           (S)
    VP           > Eng Joe Tan (M)
    Secretary > Collette Ng  (S)
    Treasurer > Delia Kong  (S)
    Events     > Aaron Tam   (M)
    Projects   > Vickie Tan   (S)
    Welfare   > Stephanie     (M)
    Sports      > Hao Wei Tan (M)
    Publicity  > GAGA CHEW~~~~~~~~ (M)

    2nd >> start working ade.. as a cloakroom staff in union.. 3nights per week 10pm-3am.. (sometimes will be 4am)  but the paid is reasonable.. =) can live a better lifestyle n reduce parents burden~~ dai goh lui jo.. must be independent.. still quite amazed of my eldest sis.. work 2 jobs, still can study well, got her masters n a good husband...  =P (讲左甘来,原来都系想嫁人)=P

    n thats my 3rd thing>> dont gan jeong... i dont have anyone yet... not even a crush now.. but... my parents urge me to look for one.. hmm.. last time when i got tonnes of male friends she restricted me to paktor.. then now.. 峰回路转... urge me somemore.. lolz.. really gau siu.. but.. depends la.. not pretty enough.. how to "fight" with others?? stop the crap of 靓唔靓在乎个心... see those people so "非洲和尚" also got pigs n dogs around.. hmm... 讲来讲去埋系个身材同个样。。
    the reason why they urge me.. basically is because they see my eldest bro.. couldnt get a gf during uni(broke up) then now hard to find one coz almost all are attached. then my 2nd bro.. 向他女友的父母提亲。so... probably if i can look for a good one then they'll fongsam gua...(coz according to them i'm so innocent n immature.. KKEMM....)

    anyway... the most important thing that i concerned is this>>>> MY STUDIES~~~
    taking law as everyone knows..and.. as u see above.. lots of responsibilites to be carried on with me.. this is my 2nd year.. the EU law, Property Law, Jurisprudence.. all need to have a very "clear" mind before studying.. only chanting can make me 清除杂念。hmm.. hope i really can cope well.. dont wanna disappoint parents anymore..

    hmm.. thats my current life in UK.. gotto be independent.. coz can hardly get someone to talk to anymore. even my bro asked me why i wanna go travelling alone.. probably because i enjoyed being alone.. n yet scare of it.. 真是矛盾!! lolz..

Saturday, 18 October 2008

  • ~summer days~

    怎么说也不相信,我竟然“荒废”了我的blog 4个月~~可能是怡保的speed很慢 所以没有upload到什么东西。
    这4个月,去了很多地方,见识了很多不同的事。从考完试那一天,就去了Ireland. 想起来好像真的很久以前的事。。。过了一个星期,去了Europe 几个国家。每次都是单独去explore 每个city. 不过说真的,我很享受,就算是一个人。2个星期的旅行就这样过去了。

    回到Sheffield Crescent Flats, 哇噻,拼命收东西,只用了两天的时间就巴所有东西搬去West One了。 当然少不了我的“大臣们”的帮忙>>>Kaikiat, Steven, William. 不记得为什么Allen 不在。当然,请他们吃了一餐Nando's. =P 非常感激不尽~~~

    我的luggage 34kg. 简直overweight到很离谱(max 20kg)。结果也因为这样missed flight 了。eewan 不在manchester,根本不知道该怎么办。不过那时是跟Ikhwan一起。结果两个人在manchester airport 过了一晚。被所有人“讽刺”。吓死人!!说要到8月15号才有机票。。。现在才7月10号,MY GOD. 结果很幸运的,刚好有两个位子没有人check in. 不然,后果不堪试想。。

    JULY     一回到KLIA,Cherry不睬我3小时,因为我没有买她要的手信。自己的心声已经不同了,还是尽量扮小孩,因为很想变回以前那个我,在爸妈面前永远长不大的小孩,只因为我还想他们像以前那样宠我(无论我做错什么不能祢补的事)。家里多了我便多了很多声音,令嬷嬷不用这么寂寞,令我觉得我的存在很受重视

    回到Malaysia不够五天,就跟 eewan & weeyi 飞去香港。真搞笑,只在trip的三天前才决定要去&安排所有事。不过蛮成功的~^.^ 去到那边,当然会找Chris & Brian, 怎知Cyrus也会来,又撞到Renie,也算有缘。=P 住在尖沙咀,去了星光大道、上山顶、玻鞋街、苗街、茨怆街,拜黄大仙、城隍爷。多谢我表姐带领。hehe.. it has been a good trip with our sarcarsm towards eewan.. hehe

    这次回来,感觉很不一样。很多人都没有找了。其实自己有很多时间,却没有去联系一下友情。。也因为爸爸需要家人支持,所以不敢外出了。很多人都是这么功利心,有身份地位时就朋友,没了就不是,还出卖你。很好。终于了解什么是“食碗面反碗底”“翻转猪肚就系屎”的意思!!!

    不过也好,无官一身轻,终于可以很自在地跟爸爸去游玩。虽然只是很靠近的Gopeng Resort,就已经很满足了。吃了40粒榴连,再加上冲冷水凉,所以就感冒了。=P 抵死丫嘛。。。但系我享受啊,吹咩~~

    AUGUST     haiz..三个星期的虚度光阴 让我爸妈送了我去一间律师楼工作。只不过短短的两个星期,其实也学到很多东西,最值得的是Mr.Yunus带我去Komplex Mahkamah 见识见识~如何打官司、打交道,最重要是有靓仔律师了嘛~~ =P 但也有很可怜的事>>>吃足两个星期的Indian Food...可是"can walk with Kings, nor lose the common touch" 就这样熬过来。入乡随俗丫嘛。=P

    haha, 过后又有个family trip 去了海南岛5天~super enjoy..虽然那边不是什么精彩生活,但很写意~ 过后终于定好了跟shujun & smin 来个singapore>malaysia trip. 先在新加坡玩4天,直接去怡保2天,再去槟城1 1/2天。值得留念~~当然,在怡保时,多谢玮耀做我们的司机,载我们去Kellie's Castle & Gua Tempurung & Clear Water. thanks lots~

    SEPTEMBER  其实回来最重要原因也不就是因为我二姐Cherry要结婚了~祝她永远幸福、快乐,跟Henry白头偕老,永结同心。很多个星期都必须KL>Ipoh两地走。其实一点都不累,只不过是不舍得~ hehe.. 他们的新房都是我布置的!!!简直是perfecto~~ ^.^

    终于四个月的假期就结束了。一直闷闷不乐。搞个farewell,结果都是男多女少。daddy 就讽刺的说“这么多男生却没有男朋友?怎么搞的啊?”哈哈,我自己也很想懂,是不是这么不被吸引~ lolz~~

    在check in 时,哭了。好不想回去。要一个人面对所有问题真的很很很辛苦。但,人始终要学习如何独立~还答应爸妈,一定会赚钱请他们来玩。其实他们是不会让我出钱,但他们也很安慰啦~

    OCTOBER 很好,兜了个圈又到回sheffield 。很明显我变了。变得很anti-social了。以前的我有的没的都会去,现在三思再三思~~ 变得有主见,会反驳了。不再是任何人的奴嫡。但还是不会变得不被别人影响自己的情绪。haiz..

    还好有KK, Allen 这班“与世隔绝”的人在,又肯听我"审",我才过得好一点。Chris 有回来,但很多事都不同了。各自加油吧!

    我会尽力写多点blog的啦~

Saturday, 21 June 2008

  • 收拾心情,准备旅行 ^.^

    have a little update before going to the trip. hehe. it's actually not spain (though i wanna go so much) but now my trip is from budapest back to london. the whole journey would be:-

    1st day (24th june) i'll be reaching budapest one day earlier than the original trip (without my mum's knowledge hehe) n i'll be staying in a Boat Hotel.  the next day only i'll meet with my tour-mates.
    25th&26th Budapest, Hungary 
    27th Salzburg via Vienna (due to  Euro 08 so skip Austria)
    28th&29th Prague, Czech Republic 
    30th Munich, Germany 
    1st&2nd Wengen, Switzerland
    3rd Rhine Valley, Germany
    4th&5th Amsterdam, Netherlands
    6th Belgium, then back to London (by ferry)
    7th back to Sheffield late night

    22nd june will be heading to London. I dont know whether it's considered "lucky" anot, i've won a voucher of 250pounds of Skylite Studio for free make-up, hair-setting, learning cat-walk, n taking photographs(photos are not free though). luckily i'm allowed to bring 2 friends along to kind of "protect" me. hehe.. smin n malcolm will be coming along. hope everything goes fine ^.^

    散散心,让自己不再被不必要的烦恼纠缠着。

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  • JiArLi
    hehe ^.^ thanks thanks.. did u change ur phone number? if u do plz inform me so that i can call u when i'm back ^.^ u take care ya~~
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    Dear JiarLi (sis) Hope you'll do your best and do well for your studies. Sorry I couldn't make it to the farewell outing when QQ asked me out. Well, take care and I hope to see you soon . .